To give a little background on the .38 Military & Police snub, S&W didn't produce a .38 snubby (2" barrel) until the mid 1930's. Not many were made before WWII. After the war, they began to make them in a square butt configuration which was the predominant butt frame since around 1905. They made them in a long-throw action up until 1948 when they introduced the short-throw action like on your GF's gun. The picture below shows a .38 M&P snub with a square butt from 1948 (upper) and a short-throw action, round butt, from 1949 (lower). Notice the shape of the hammers. That is a quick way to tell the age of an M&P whether snub or long barrel.